“The tongue has no bones, but is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with words.”

This quote is a good one. Because you can really break someones heart with words. Everybody say that a heart is the strongest muscle of the body but that ain’t true. A heart can suffer, cry, fight, love, feel,hate but especially break. What can come out of a mouth can be so mean that it can break your heart. And i think that everybody for sure has broken someones heart. Maybe you didn’t even want to but it happend anyway. You can hurt also someone fiscal but your wounds will heal or sometimes will leave a scar but it doesn’t touch the heart as much as with words. A heart that is broken will not heal intirly. If somenon breaks your heart the wound will stay. Sometimes it is better to forgive but never forget.

“Life becomes easier when you learn to accept an apology you never got.”

Today I will use also this quote because you evenly can put these two toghether. Because if a person broke your heart it doesn’t mean that he will apologise to you. If you want to go on with your life and want to live happy. Then you have to be strong and accept that you will never have that apology.

Sometimes people talk without thinking! What do you do then? Do you forget? Do you accept ? Do you ask yourself is he or she a person who will apologise eventually?

Simon and Garfunkel have a beautiful song. “The sound of silence.” If you listen to the song and read the text it is so special. It is so true what say.

“People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening
People writing songs that voices never share
No one dared
Disturb the sound of silence.”

People hearing without listening! Beautiful and so true. People talking without speaking! Many people could learn so much from these lyrics. I think that sometimes people really are so ignorant that they don’t even have the slightest idea that they have broken your heart. They are to busy with themselves and forget that other people have feelings. I don’t know what is more painful, ignorance or un purpose.

When people know that they are breaking your heart or someone doesn’t even see it by his ignorance. Both are hard and can be painful. Maybe you can accept it more if you see that someone doesn’t even see it. Someone hurts you and he knows that he is hurting you is I think the limit! It’s to difficult to accept! Especially when he or she doesn’t apologise. Then you have to be strong and accept the non apology and go on with your life but without that person. So listen to the beautiful song and be careful with words! Have the balls to apologise when you know you have heart the person you love. And apologise when you have to, that calls education!

Just think about it and write to you soon!

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