Face the reality!

Sometimes if you feel like writing an article and usually you use quotes. But this time there are so many thoughts in your head. It’s better to write it down and forget about the quote. Maybe it will come during your writing. Yesterday it was Sunday and I wrote an article for Monday. And I didn’t use a quote to start because there were so many thoughts in my head that I could write down an article anyway. Like today it’s Monday. The beginning of a new week. I’m still surprised about what has happened yesterday and it’s still a little bit in my head but I hope finally it will find its place or it really disappears from my head. It’s good to think about stuff and have thought about things that are happening in your life but sometimes you need to go on with your life. Don’t live in the past and don’t take the past with you. Sometimes you could have flashbacks and that’s okay but take the past with you the whole time isn’t. Or let’s say living in the past. Live in the present and looking for the future. Maybe my problem is to have control of everything and you can’t have control of everything. Specially control over my life. It’s s my life not yours.

During writing this article I have received , some comments on the last article that I wrote. That is:” Is it so difficult to stand in someone else’s shoes?” First my father responded and said:” yes it is.” and another person who thanked me for sharing this thoughtful post. I liked writing that article. For me it’s an important article. I’m happy with these compliments this morning, that gives me the drive to keep on writing.
I know that life can’t be easy sometimes and you want to quit but don’t quit please! But I hope with my articles I can inspire people to never give up and never live in the past and fight for themselves. Life can be so short! Live your life, be happy and be there for other people who are struggling like you. I know you are strong.

I know it’s easy to say that you have to leave the past for what it is, even if you have been hurt so much, let it go! But I think that some things you can’t leave in the past. You will carry it with you until you die. That can be happy moments, sad moments, hard moments and so on. Nobody can decide for you if you have to leave it in the past or you want to take it with you until you die. You only have to think about it if it’s worth it to bring it with you on your journey of life. Because taking something with you that it’s better to leave in the past. Leave it in the past! It is easy to say leave the death in the past but if that person is still in your heart you won’t let go. And I think that people who were special for you. You can give them a place in your heart and you will take them with you until you die. And I think that’s okay! They will guide you on your journey of life if you let them. But only for so far if you leave the death alone. They will find you and if you’re are open for it, listen to them! And they will guide you. So in your heart you will take the memories of that lovely person with you!

“Until you have buried someone you love, you won’t understand how hard a holiday, death day, birthday or another day is without them”
This was one of the quotes that I wanted to use for an article. Now it fits in this article because we were talking about to forget someone special in your life, you can’t do that. It is so true that until you’ve buried someone that you love, you don’t know how hard life can be without them. So if you want to take those memories with you until you die, then you should.

“Don’t waste your time looking back you’re not going that way!” This is the other quote that I wanted to write an article about but it fits also in this article. This is the phrase of Ragnar Lothbrok. He is one of the most important characters in the series of the Vikings! I love this Series and I have seen all episodes! And this is one of his thoughts that I think it’s absolutely right. The past is the past, live in the present and look for the future. It’s always easy to say things and write down things but at least try to live your life the way you want to be, but not by staying in the past. What happened in the has happened. Leave it there and learn from it. In everything that happens there will be i wise lesson. You can always fantasies but come back to reality! Face the reality! If you want to try to change your fantasy in reality, fight for it! But! Only if it is possible. Don’t waist your time on dead ends. Learn from it, don’t look back because you are not going that way.

I am going to leave you now with this exploding article! Have a great week everyone. Just think about it and write to you soon!

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